1、不求人好感，不予人难堪。
Do not seek favour, do not be embarrassed.
2、不要把负面情绪传递到别人身上，朋友也不行，每个人每天都很辛苦的。
Don't pass on negative feelings to others, not even your friends. Everyone has a hard time every day.
3、别把不理解变成诋毁。
Don't turn incomprehension into slander.
4、用最好的自己，去对待最爱的人，而不是用最坏的自己，去考验对方。
Use the best of yourself, to treat the most loved one, but not with the worst of yourself, to test each other.
5、任何良好的关系前提：相互考虑，相互尊重。
The premise of any good relationship: mutual consideration and mutual respect.
6、可以为了喜欢的人和东西改变自己，但如果代价是迷失自己，请你慎重！
You can change yourself for the people and things you like, but if the price is to lose yourself, please be careful!
7、少提点择偶标准，多问问自己何德何能？
Mention a point less to choose a spouse standard, ask oneself more what virtue what ability?
8、成年人，不以伤疤示人，不借软弱社交，是基本的礼仪。
Adults, not to show scars, not by weakness of social, is the basic etiquette.
9、爱不是控制和索取，爱是尊重和接纳。
Love is not about controlling and taking. Love is about respecting and accepting.
10、任何一个人都不可以拿别人的外貌来开玩笑， 这是底线，也是骨子里的教养。
No one is allowed to make fun of someone else's appearance. This is the bottom line and it is a good upbringing.
11、欣赏不来别人视若珍宝的，就应该保持沉默。
He who cannot appreciate what others regard as precious should keep silent.
12、礼貌，是最不花钱的社交，但比什么都值钱。
Politeness, is the least expensive social, but more than anything.
13、不要把不理解变成对别人的诋毁。
Don't turn your lack of understanding into a slander.
14、思想不在一个高度，没必要互相说服。
Ideas are not on the same level, there is no need to persuade each other.